Thursday, February 28, 2013

NBC Show

Why is it that these nonbelievers always choose to desecrate, blaspheme, and mock Jesus Christ, the Blessed Mother Mary and the Catholic Church? And allowed to do it with impunity at that?  They never do this about Buddha, Confucius, Mohammed, Lao Tzu, the Jews and other characters of other religions, do they? They're afraid, right? If you do it about the Jewish religion, you will be accused of antisemitism. If you do it with Islamism, you know the result, right? Your head will be cut off.  Kmart, Sears and JCPenney sponsor violent and gory mocking of Jesus. http://action.afa.net/Detail.aspx?id=2147532531 Why? Do non-believers have no respect because Jesus Christ is known as a loving and forgiving God (not at all the violent God NBC portrays Him to be in a mocking way)? Isn't that the highest form of abuse of one's generosity?
Well, now is the time to make a stand, protest and boycott entities promoting such blasphemy and most offensive untruths of One they should kneel down to .

“Djesus Uncrossed”: NBC’s Blasphemy Against Jesus Christ

NBC Mocks Christian Faith | Saturday Night Live Skit
By portraying Jesus Christ as a murderer, NBC has sunk to a new low in mocking the Christian faith.
As Hollywood continues to blaspheme and disrespect Jesus Christ and the Christian faith, NBC network’s Saturday Night Live show took the attacks to a new low with a skit depicting Jesus Christ as a violent murderer. The skit, called “Djesus Uncrossed”, a spoof on the slave revenge film, Django Unchained, was just another example of the blatant mockery of the Christian faith being promoted in pop culture today.

Saturday, February 23, 2013

How Do You Know Which Is the True Church?


Yesterday, I went to the Legion of May's Patrician meeting (actually a developmental meeting) where different wrong perceptions of the Catholic Church were discussed. Too many, among them,"How do you know your church is the true Church?" Or, "How do you know which is the True Church." Though I teach this in my RCIA, it's still so refreshing to have a member of the diocese confirm that I'm in the right track in what I'm sharing--an approach no rational person can argue against: that Jesus Christ founded only one Church meant to embrace all in one fold throughout eternity: the Catholic Church, the only one that came from the apostles. (To be continued---too groggy to open my eyes.)

Friday, February 1, 2013

Should you Leave Your Church Because of the Scandals?

And so the retired Cardinal Mahoney has been stripped of his administrative duties for having kept from the public all those records of sex abuse by some of his priests. Should church members leave the church for that reason? I have met this kind archbishop the few times he officiated mass in our parish. After the death of our beloved pastor Alexander :Lewis, Cardinal Mahoney presided in our parish during one or two Masses of the Lenten season, which was gratifying as we were like orphans he had to look after. It pains us to see him now suffering over his having committed the mistake of shielding those offending priests even as our heart bleeds for the victims. The question posed by an itinerant media interviewer was: "Are you going to leave your church after learning that of the Cardinal?"

So many Catholics who have strayed away have done so because of some traumatic experience in their past lif with Catholic superiors. Apropos such, let me share an email exchange between me and another member of my then egroup, one who suffered a humiliating experience from the nuns of the Catholic school she had gone to.. To retain her anonymity, I'm changing the name to Ana though the rest is unedited. She addresses me Atsing Blanca because Atse is the Pampango equivalent of Ate in Tagalog, the kind of respectful way of  addressing an older sister; it has no exact equivalent in English.

@yahoo. com.au> wrote:
Dear Atsing Blanca & hello Everyone,

Thank you so much Atse for your comment. I really appreciate it.
I missed you too and all the other active posters on our egroup. I
have learned so much by reading everyone's thoughts...
I haven't been active lately because of my work load..this is the
busiest time of the year for me..

The humiliating experience i had with the church is with me all the
time.Talking about it always leave a painful lump in my throat like
this very moment.For years, i loathed that teacher and all the other
teachers who humiliated me in front of the class.My parents were not
there emotionally like you and like me and like some other parents
are to our own children.But that was my reality and i dealt with it
the best i could.

But it's also that sad reality that motivated me to read and seek
the meaning of the bible which they said is God's Word..
"RIGHTEOUSNESS" is the message i recieve from reading the
bible..When i pondered about "righteousness" ,and looking back now, i
realized that even as a helpless,inocent & ignorant little child
whose only constant companion was the ache in the tummy because of
hunger, there was a righteous conscience.. God provided us with a
righteous conscience as a guide..If we only listen to this little
voice within , life is not going to be so complicated and everyone
will be spiritually connected no matter who,what,and where we all
come from.

As an adult now, it is not right for me to allow childhood experience
to stop me from seeking the fruit of the Holy Spirit..
It is also the message of righteousness that taught me never turn my
anger into loathe and never allow my joy and happiness turn into
gloat..

Thank you Atse for your encouragement. .and thanks everyone for your
time..

love,
Ana

--- In... blanca nolledo <bndatuin@.. .wrote:
>
> Welcome back, Ana! Where have you been? I missed you!
> I'm so sorry to hear you had such a humiliating experience in
receiving your First Communion. I can't blame you for your
bitterness after that. I would feel the same way. Where did this
happen? That teacher should have been reported; your mother should
have gone to the principal or to the parish. If that were done to my
daughter, I would probably have stormed the school and that parish
and screamed (despite my not having too loud a voice): You have no
right to strip anybody, young or old, of dignity! In the eyes of
God, we don't need a white dress or a veil to confess! The truth is
I never heard of girls being required to wear white dresses and
white veils for confession even in the early days. Not in Manila nor
in my hometown Capas.We all loathe cruelty and any other
inappropriate behavior. Yet, that teacher did not represent the kind
and loving Church of God. No such person should ever represent the
Church.
>
> Let me share this with you: I never went to a Catholic school--
we were so poor we couldn't afford it. (My lawyer father preferred
to defend the poor seeking justice rather than side with the rich
exploiting the poor. So, we remained as poor as his clients.) But I
taught Grade 5 before in a Catholic school here in LA. The Mother
principal told me to scream at my students when they misbehaved. She
said I have too soft a voice. So, she would scream at them in front of me, and I
felt so insulted because these were like my own children and didn't
want anybody else screaming at them. I told her I have my own
method: instead of screaming at any misbehaving child in front of the others,
 I would rather take him aside and warn him of the
consequences and if repeated would take the necessary disciplinary action.
 (I raised two boys of my own and they can tell you
 they never in their whole life got screamed at, nor got spanked
by me or by their father, and they turned
out to be caring, thoughtful and responsible men of principles.
Firmness in implementing house rules
and letting them know the consequences helped.) I asked to be
 allowed to have my own disciplinary method. Their
disciplinary method entailed putting the names of misbehaving
students on the board. I told her I don't want to shame a child that
way. I'd rather write on the board the names of the behaving
students to make them feel proud of themselves and be role models. A few other
differences (I overheard her one time putting down Filipino
teenagers which naturally caused me to speak up. Another time she
was overheard asking in dismay, "What, another Filipino to be the
valedictorian? " Gosh, what can we do if the Filipino students are smarter
 and scoring higher than the rest? I didn't last there, as can be expected.
I feel happier in my adult  school now.
>
> My point here is that my experience in that Catholic school,
though very unpleasant, did not cause me to leave my church. Why
would I let my relationship with God be ruined because of some
rotten apples in His Church? They are not THE Catholic Church. The
True Church follows the examples of the Good Shepherd: kind,
nurturing and protective of His sheep. Don't let your childhood
experience deprive you of the fruits of the Holy Spirit.
> God bless.
> Atsing Blanca

Saturday, January 12, 2013

David Frum on Marijuana legalization

David Frum
There are many excellent reasons to avoid marijuana. Marijuana use damages brain development in young people. Heavy users become socially isolated and perform worse in school and at work. Marijuana smoke harms the lungs. A growing body of evidence suggests that marijuana can trigger psychotic symptoms that otherwise would have remained latent.

 Prayer
The young that wound their beautiful minds:
Oh, how our heart aches. 
Would that the angels cloak them
with wings and fly them back to freedom
where Beelzebub can never cast
his gloom ever again. Bring them back, we pray, to
their mothers wailing in the middle of night,
yes, ululating, pleading, for their young to
return to their bosom.
.

Tuesday, November 20, 2012

Another rediscovered review of But for the Lovers

Wilfrido Nolledo's disjointed style merges personalities and events into one stunning nightmare with a momentum all its own kaleidoscopic continuity

Wilfrido D. Nolledo, But for the Lovers, Dalkey Archive Press, 1994 (1970).
"In the years since its original publication, But for the Lovers has acquired an underground reputation as one of the most remarkable novels about World War II, doing for the Pacific war theater what Joseph Heller's Catch-22 did for the European one. Set in the Philippines, But for the Lovers depicts the survival of a cross-section of Filipinos during the Japanese Occupation and the American Liberation.
The cast is enormous, including an old man who used to wander the countryside entertaining children, a young girl raped by Japanese soldiers, guerrilla messengers bringing word of the coming of the American army, and a Japanese major who views the war as the first step of the liberation of the Asian people from Western civilization.
This extraordinary novel is no less remarkable for the power and the beauty of its language than for the exotic and magical world it creates. Ranging from hallucinatory lyricism to documentary realism, from black humor sketches to scenes of horror and degradation, But for the Lovers is a rich and complex exploration of language, history, and mythology."

"For his first English novel, this Filipino author received high praise, including that of LJ's reviewer who claimed Nolledo "[has] perfect control of technique, and appears, enviably, to be able to write almost as he pleases". The novel is set in Manila during the Japanese occupation as the American invasion is beginning. This remains an "important novel."

"The book shows the Philippines as a land of people struggling for hope, surviving against the tyranny of the Japanese as they await General MacArthur's return. But for the Lovers is a classic story of love, war, and freedom." - Explanasian

"This is a strange, compelling book that has the tortuous complexity and is fraught with the labyrinthine terrors of a dream..." - Publishers Weekly
"[Nolledo's] deliberately disjointed style merges personalities and events into one stunning nightmarewith a momentum all its own, and a built-in, kaleidoscopic continuity." - Martin Levin
"There's some ongoing discussion on Filipino-American novels on the Flips Listserve. A series of titles was shared.
Then Paolo Javier mentioned,
THE text that really got me back into reading Philippine Literature was W. Nolledo's BUT FOR THE LOVERS. This book was a real watershed read for me in college, but I didn't so much read it as read THROUGH it...opened my eyes (& heart) to the phil lit section in my college library, which was surprisingly vast (I attended the University of British Columbia)((go figure)). They even had a first edition of the book, published in '71 i think (!!). so do check it out...I immediately and enthusiastically zipped out the following post to the Flips List: "I am so happy Paolo mentioned Wilfrido D. Nolledo's novel, BUT FOR THE LOVERS! This is one of my top two favorite novels ever written by a Filipino author."
I'm a bit surprised now at realizing I've never blathered enthusiastically about this book before. I've long wished to see the type of consistency in energy as well as diction as I've seen in this book... particularly when (in my experience) it's not as mentioned as frequently by those who would teach or create *lists* of Filipino American literature.
Here's a one-paragraph excerpt:
Whenever the boy was away, Hidalgo gave imitations of foliage to the girl. This recital carried him into: alder, myrtle, deodar, linden. He shaped sepal in his hands and spoke of fatal fragrances. On this personal stage the old Spaniard performed with love and variety for he knew his blushing audience would follow him into the restlessness of his art. He had only to mimic the mating call of cauliflowers and she would reward him with unfeigned, even tearful laughter. Posturing on his wriggly cane, he would amble into center light and venture in the delicate rhythm of liche. In his preludes, he was always gay, flamboyant. To this she curtsied, joining him breathlessly, his father's book of dichos in her hand; and together they would take a bow.THAT is a Prose Poem in itself, and yet that paragraph is obviously just one of many in a 316-page book.
Definitely, let's recover this novel out of its undeserved (relative) obscurity. This is the kind of book that, had it been touted over other (cough) choices, would have eased the global reputation of Filipino literature being great writing. Indeed, according to Robert Coover's introduction in the Dalkey edition, this novel was published in 1970 by E.P. Dutton and its editor was the legendary Hal Scharlatt who died (not yet forty) on an indoor tennis court. Coover says that, "Without Scharlatt, Nolledo had no one in the industry to champion his writing. Thus it was that one of the best books of the decade, abandoned by its own publisher, came and went virtually without notice.
Well...what a shame! And don't let us be naive in believing that writing well suffices for marketing and distribution purposes. Writing well suffices for... writing well. Marketing and distribution is something else. So let's spread the word on Nolledo's novel... TODAY.
So, okay: I was enthused. I am still enthusiastic. Note that Coover didn't call this novel one of the *best Filipino novels* out there; Coover called it "one of the best books of the decade" regardless of the author's ethnicity. So Nolledo has never received the attention he deserves—and it's time to rectify that. Apparently, Melissa Nolledo-Christoffels (Nolledo's daughter) is setting up a website that hopefully will serve to introduce Nolledo to a new generation of readers. Great! I look forward to it. Until then, here's another excerpt from Nolledo's novel, BUT FOR THE LOVERS.
Prologue:
HE WAS BEGINNING TO EAT FLOWERS and the crescent moon was in his eyes when he awoke again. One night long ago when they had intercepted a code from the enemy on the shortwave and had not needed him anymore, they pulled out their tents, mantled him with leaves, and left him. They left him a rifle, a buri basket and a book of psalms, for the major had decreed in defense of this murder: Let the little legionnaire lie here and die; it is written, it shall be read. But the boy went on sleeping and did not die and when he awakened it was to see (it was to find himself alone) a bird, a whitewinged maya dart in from the west, perhaps headed for the monsoon. Steadying the Springfield, he cocked the hammer with a quivering thumb, and waited. It flew away, whatever it was, and now he squinted up and remembered that it was the first time in a long spell he had seen the sky, and he thought: It is longer, lonelier and lovelier than any of my prayers. He sighted the nimbus—an eagle in captivity—and fired." - Eileen Tabios"...There are certain things you can not stop. The Fall of Bastille for example. The revolutions in Russia for example. The revolutions in China for example. And then, you can't stop reading a book entitled "But For The Lovers by Wilfrido Nolledo".
Wilfrido who?
Well and well again! Wilfrido Nolledo's book ain't an easy read. At least to me. I wanted to give up its reading after the first fifty pages because, well, it requires somethin' to comprehend, I say somethin' because it is not your typical novel where you see men walkin' and talkin' and plottin' in an expected order. It's a novel that drives me crazy even now because I still don't know what that somethin' is.
It bombards me with millions of images in a stack revealed without any arrangement. The order becomes clear only somewhere close to the end. But in the end I don't know anymore if the characters were real or symbols. Weird really.
Is this novel a poem in prose? Or prose in poem? Would a poet understand it better than me who is non-poet? Is this novel about World War Two (it's time frame) or is it about history (characters composed of natives, Spanish, Japanese, Americans) or is it a social commentary ( struggle between a businesswoman(Tira) and her impoverished tenants) or is it about brutality ( heads rolling, women being raped, Japanese soldiers murdered ) or is it just plain wild ( an exotic dancer turns into a male, a landlady demands to be f---- by male tenants who could not pay rents, and the worst of all, a woman biting a lethargic man's penis until the head is cut off as the building collapses on both, ouch!) or is it about love (Amoran and "the" Filipino girl whose name isn't mentioned) or is it about the Philippines symbolized by "the" Filipino girl whose name can not be mentioned? I can go on and on sharing with you the images and theories that linger in my mind - believe me - there are lots of them in this novel. But some images I can no longer recall. And there is also the big possibility of me misinterpreting these images.
Was this novel written when Salvador Dali was hot?
Another thing about it is its English mastery where every word seems to be plucked out of a mountain of words. Like a novel that painstakingly weighed the use of words. It reminds of the current lamentation of Filipino educators who claim that the lustre of Filipino English in the 1960's has been totally wiped out in this generation.
Was it written in the midst of hallucination? Or some psychedelic imagination in multiple colors like the Hippie colors of the late sixties?
Was it written at a time Pablo Picasso was hot?
Was it written using magic realism to the max?
I may never be able to tell you anything about this novel that came out of our country when we were still the best Asians around.
It is a novel whose style is as contemporary and experimental as our time today. But it is not an easy read. It is not one you'd consider a potential bestseller.
And finally, But For The Lovers reminds me again of the Filipino generation who witnessed the destruction of our country because of the savagery of war. The same generation who wept loud as they saw their Philippine flag replace the American and Japanese flags after the Liberation. The same Filipino generation who built the Philippines as one wealthy and intelligent and peaceful nation in the decade fifties and sixties. The same Filipino generation who are rolling on their graves in disgust and anger at the current generation who don't seem to give a damn about the country that was trusted to them." - Alex Maskara more

 

 

Earlier That Day

but for the lovers




I greeted him hello; he waved me goodbye.

I wrote a book review on "BUT FOR THE LOVERS" by Wilfrido Nolledo. I called his book weird. What followed was even wierder. He went to the ICU the same day. He died two days later. This must never happen to a superstitious man like me.

I bought his book long time ago, together, I think, with "America Is In the Heart" by Bulosan. Never had a chance to read it until it was mentioned in the FLIPS group. I told my sister to get it from my storage. She said she looked and looked but it was nowhere.

So I went. It's been years since I checked out my storage. I opened it and if there was anything that it reminded me of - it was a tomb.

Death was painted all over it. Dead books. Dead authors. Dead singers. Dead writing. Dead past. Everything is dead.

But I thought, who's afraid of death?

So I started to write a free text on my computer about entering my storage. Then I read the book. It took me a while because my winter allergies started attacking me again. Then my job became very busy that I had to work everyday. Then I had to continue training for my first marathon this year. Then I had to deal with pain all over.

I just could not find the time to read any book.

Besides, BUT FOR THE LOVERS was not an easy read. Until I reached its middle and off I went reading.

I was mesmerized by its play of words. By its uniqueness. By the fact that Nolledo and I seem to like writing weird things.

I wrote my review and posted it on FLIPS.

Earlier that day, Mr Nolledo was sent to ICU.

And what I wrote scared the s--- out of me. Because now I understand why I checked my storage and found it so dead. Now I understand why I suddenly thought of dead authors and singers and writers.

Perhaps Mr. Nolledo had a unique way of influencing things. And if he did whisper in my consciousness the things I wrote, I thank him for the great privilege. He is a Philippine treasure.

I think he pulled his last trick on me. Yeah, yeah, yeah, he's mystery.



My Personal Reaction to Wilfrido Nolledo's BUT FOR THE LOVERS

...praised by New York Times Review as "stunning" in its first publication...




I finally visited my storage - and looked at things I kept all these years. Books, lots of books; some read, others not. There are boxes and boxes of assorted items: a glass figurine, old computer components, detergents, clothes, blankets, and my thirteen year old diaries. I call them contemplative diaries, I wrote them to straighten out my mind, and to direct my thoughts. It's awful to look at things I accumulated through my thirteen years living in America.

I see a little box containing a rock from Pinatubo. My father told me it's the closest I could get to the dangerous eruption. I visited Pinatubo twice since then. Then I see all the papers I prepared to get me hired as a Therapist in the US. That was thirteen years ago when America to my mind was this wonderful escape from my country's misfortunes. A way to save my family. Like Zorro, maybe. Like William Tell, I don't know.

My immigrant experience is an experience worthy of a novel itself, another one that I'd probably write and write about, assuming someone might find it readable, or at least understandable. I love to write about the things I go through, only because I want to keep my experience captured forever, like pictures...though unlike pictures, it doesn't fade. Writing makes my experience linger as fresh as a new day everyday. It smells as good as a newly brewed coffee.

I find my coffee maker, the one I used for years until I became allergic to coffee. How I ended up with so many allergies in the US I'd never know. I find Filipino casettes, I don't recall anymore who the top Pinoy singers were when I left. I believe they were Martin Nievera and Gary Valenciano. But certain singers keep me Pinoy forever: Rey Valera, Florante, Asin, and of course, Ric Manrique Jr. and Sylvia La Torre, really, it's always 'of course' when it comes to Bakya Mo Neneng and Leron Leron Sinta.

I take a look at all the Pinoy books I accumulated through the years. My gay books. My classic books. All of them standing along the walls of the storage, like heads of dead corpses in the catacombs of Italy. Begging me to read them all. And I couldn't. There is a limit to one's reading capability. I want to write. I want to exercise. I want to work seven days a week. I want to, argh, I've got so many wants and I can't get them. I place a CD in my CD player.

Ella Fitzgerald is singing Summer Time and Someone To Watch Over Me. You listen to who? My co-workers wonder who Ella Fitzgerald is. Or Nina Simone. Or Edith Piaf. Even Mahalia Jackson they don't know. They're the ones I listen to, I say. Singers? they ask. Of course!

...Summertime and the livin is easy, fish are jumpin' and the cotton is high, your Dad's rich, and you Mama's good-lookin', so hush little baby don't you cry....

And I don't even know if these are the exact words. Ah, don't I just love these jazzy tunes, these show tunes, these - I can't believe I have copies of "The Producers" and "Rent". These Broadway musicals have special meanings - "Producers" brought to life the dead spirit of NY post 9/11. "Rent" creator, whatever his name is, died without seeing his creation top Broadway. Ain't that sad, you spend your entire life trying success and when it's there, you're dead.

Dead - this word no longer threatens me. I used to be so frightened of death until - wait a minute! - what do I know about death? I see death everyday and what it is is nothingness; it's a split second existence without a concept of time or space or anything. Why would I be afraid of a one second moment? No matter how many billions of years pass by when I'm dead, I won't know. It is a temporary change between lives and existence. I believe that even if Jesus were to take me to his House I surely wouldn't know what would happen in the world from that point on. I surely wouldn't be sitting by a window watching the world go by. Who wants to watch the world go by anyway? What I know of the world is what I know about it now - that somewhere in the Philippines, there are so many stupid politicians trying to run it. So there! That is what I know. Do I care?

Not anymore. There are certain things you can not stop. The Fall of Bastille for example. The revolutions in Russia for example. The revolutions in China for example. And then, you can't stop reading a book entitled "But For The Lovers by Wilfrido Nolledo".

Wilfrido who?

Well and well again! Wilfrido Nolledo's book ain't an easy read. At least to me. I wanted to give up its reading after the first fifty pages because, well, it requires somethin' to comprehend, I say somethin' because it is not your typical novel where you see men walkin' and talkin' and plottin' in an expected order. It's a novel that drives me crazy even now because I still don't know what that somethin' is.

It bombards me with millions of images in a stack revealed without any arrangement. The order becomes clear only somewhere close to the end. But in the end I don't know anymore if the characters were real or symbols. Weird really.

Is this novel a poem in prose? Or prose in poem? Would a poet understand it better than me who is non-poet? Is this novel about World War Two (it's time frame) or is it about history (characters composed of natives, Spanish, Japanese, Americans) or is it a social commentary ( struggle between a businesswoman(Tira) and her impoverished tenants) or is it about brutality ( heads rolling, women being raped, Japanese soldiers murdered ) or is it just plain wild ( an exotic dancer turns into a male, a landlady demands to be f---- by male tenants who could not pay rents, and the worst of all, a woman biting a lethargic man's penis until the head is cut off as the building collapses on both, ouch!) or is it about love (Amoran and "the" Filipino girl whose name isn't mentioned) or is it about the Philippines symbolized by "the" Filipino girl whose name can not be mentioned? I can go on and on sharing with you the images and theories that linger in my mind - believe me - there are lots of them in this novel. But some images I can no longer recall. And there is also the big possibility of me misinterpreting these images.

Was this novel written when Salvador Dali was hot?

Another thing about it is its English mastery where every word seems to be plucked out of a mountain of words. Like a novel that painstakingly weighed the use of words. It reminds of the current lamentation of Filipino educators who claim that the lustre of Filipino English in the 1960's has been totally wiped out in this generation.

Was it written in the midst of hallucination? Or some psychedelic imagination in multiple colors like the Hippie colors of the late sixties?

Was it written at a time Pablo Picasso was hot?

Was it written using magic realism to the max?

I may never be able to tell you anything about this novel that came out of our country when we were still the best Asians around.

It is a novel whose style is as contemporary and experimental as our time today. But it is not an easy read. It is not one you'd consider a potential bestseller.

And finally, But For The Lovers reminds me again of the Filipino generation who witnessed the destruction of our country because of the savagery of war. The same generation who wept loud as they saw their Philippine flag replace the American and Japanese flags after the Liberation. The same Filipino generation who built the Philippines as one wealthy and intelligent and peaceful nation in the decade fifties and sixties. The same Filipino generation who are rolling on their graves in disgust and anger at the current generation who don't seem to give a damn about the country that was trusted to them.

Monday, November 12, 2012

FROM THE TREASURE TROVE--What Makes Woman Beautiful

Rummaging into a wealth of manuscripts left by my late husband, Wilfrido, while I was searching the typescript of a novel of his that a publisher heard about and is interested in, I found this news clipping of antiquity, yellowing with age. but bringing back memories that brought me to tears. Interviewed in 1961 (barely three years after our wedding), together with some other national figures, here was his spontaneous reply as published in the Philippines Herald in its November 10, 1961 issue. We both didn't even see it then, but my brother did and clipped it, complete with the page number.
__________________________

WHAT MAKES A WOMAN BEAUTIFUL
by Wilfrido D. Nolledo
short story writer, playwright

A woman is made beautiful by character. To me, character is everything. It is a grace, a charity, a quietness. It is all the poetry we have ever written: all the history we will survive. Character is fate---man's mate. When she behaves like a family, even before she is a mother; when she giggles like a girl but weeps as a woman, The Woman to The Man is all a piece. As in a haiku poem, a pebble cast into a stream creates a ripple, and breaks the stillness. But soon, the water settles and the stream is serene once more. Sometimes, a woman is like that. There is a ripple now and then. But the pebble vanishes; she remains. She is always there. I think that is beautiful indeed, and ... (sorry the rest got cut off by the brittleness of the fold).

Sunday, November 11, 2012


               TO BE HUMAN
              By Blanca Datuin

The thing hoods his head and shrouds his face
Scared to let others know the real him.
Would he let us see the contour of his soul?

Beloved earthling, why do you hide behind
a black shade? Is your face so accursed
it glowers beyond my nightmare? 

 What kind of god tells you to behead 
One who touched not a single strand
Of your hair?

What power sets your mind to mangle
a world so lovingly shaped by the one
true God, then rend yourself to pieces?

What vileness breaks your fragile brain
And turns your humanness into a chimera?
Oh, that you would wake up ,

Look to the sun and not be blinded,
Shake off the shackles and taste
The heroic, wresting lives from the dragon.

Breathe in the fresh scent of flowers,
Cradle a  baby, nurse a wounded soldier.
See, the sky bends to kiss the sea.

Sun gleams resplendent if you let it in.
See the you that is human and beautiful
With all the fullness of your splendor.
                                                  (c) 2009